We are two separate people living in the same house. We don't talk, we don't touch, we hardly communicate unless it pertains to the boys. We are in the process of trying to figure out living situations, but he and I alike are stubborn. He doesn't believe that I should stay in the house, and I of course believe the complete opposite. That is our house, my boys house and just because he doesn't want to play house doesn't mean the boys and I should have the call it quits. We love that house, and it's our home...The boys have a yellow playroom, and they feel safe and comfortable there. I do believe this will end badly and this will no longer be our home, I pray it all works out.